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First Connection: Charlotte Singles Night (26–49)

Friday October 17 at 7:00pm - Check-in starts at 6:30pm

Rhino Market & Deli Southpark

4300 Congress Street Charlotte, NC 28209

IMPORTANT: Don’t skip the Compatibility Questionnaire when you grab your ticket

First Connection is Charlotte’s intentional singles event designed for ages 26–49 who want to meet real people, face-to-face, in a way that feels natural and fun.

This isn’t your typical speed dating or crowded singles mixer. We’ve designed the evening to help you:

Spark authentic conversations (no small talk required)
Meet a variety of singles in a relaxed, guided format
Discover true compatibility through engaging activities
Enjoy a fun night out while making meaningful connections

Who It’s For

If you’re looking for:

A chance to meet people who actually want connection
A welcoming, low-pressure space to explore chemistry
A more thoughtful alternative to dating apps

…then this event is for you.

What to Expect

Group placement tailored to key compatibility factors
Fun games + a round of human bingo (trust us, it’s a hit)
Discount codes for future events (because your journey might take more than one night!)
A mix of group fun and one-on-one moments
A relaxed atmosphere (think casual, not corporate)
Discount codes for future events (because your journey might take more than one night!)

You’ll leave with new connections, fresh energy, and maybe even the start of something special. After all, the first connection could be the best one.

👉 Grab your ticket now — spaces are limited to keep things intimate and engaging!’t about putting on a show. Just bring your real self, an open mind, and maybe a cute outfit.

Limited spots available to ensure gender balance .Event runs 1 hour and 30 Ticket sales close 1 hours before we start. Must fill out the Compatibility Questionnaire

Refund Policy

Refunds up to 3 days before event - booking fees (Tixtree & Stripe) are non-refundable

What past participants are saying about our singles events:

"I like the concept. The games made it easier to have conversations. It was a creative, inexpensive way to spend a Friday night and meet new people."

"I definitely appreciate your non-app, non-speed dating style of helping to break the ice among strangers."

Event Guidelines

Be on time – This is a connection experience, and we kick things off as a group
Be present – Your phone can wait
Be kind, always – Not feeling a spark? No biggie. Just be gracious
Dress to express – Look nice, feel nice. This isn’t a black-tie gala, but have your outfit say, “I made an effort"
Get curious – Ask creative questions, share your story, and really listen. You might be surprised what you learn
Have your intro game ready – Think about what you’d want someone to remember about you
Relax and have fun – Everyone’s here for the same reason: connection

Safety

Speak up – If someone says or does something off, let a host know.
No tolerance for offensive or inappropriate behavior
Don’t push for digits – If you want to stay in touch, offer your number. Let them decide if the feeling’s mutual. Consent is hot.

Photography/Video

We may take some pictures or shoot short videos during the event. By attending, you’re ok us using these for future promos, ads, or social media. If you’d rather not be featured, just let us know—we respect your boundaries.

FAQ:

What is the parking situation? There is free covered parking in the immediate area behind the venue.
Does the venue have food? Yes, the kitchen stops making food to order by 8pm, but the bodega area has snacks as well.
What types of drinks are available for purchase? There is a full bar and it also includes non-alcoholic options like sodas, mocktails and other selections.
Is this like speed-dating? No. This event is meant to be different from speed-dating. There are not frequent rotations, but we do encourage participants to move to another group if they want to, so they can meet more people. The groups get to know each other in a casual setup as they tackle activities and conversation prompts
What if I'm not the age described in the event? We're planning on hosting other events in the future for different age ranges. Express your interest by clicking on "Notify me" above. In the meantime, please check out our friend-matching events.
Do you also host singles events for LGBTQ+ folks? Absolutely! Stay tuned for an LGBTQ+ event in the Fall.
How is the compatibility matching done for these events? It's not an app, it's not a software. It's just me, Fernanda, analyzing your responses on my nerdy spreadsheet. :) I try my best to place people in the same table based on their answers about past relationships, money attitudes, parenting, religion, and deal breakers among other factors.

Try it out! Reserve your spot today!